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One of the primary reasons people are upset by their intuitive abilities, particularly those who are mediums (see/hear spirit people) is the lack of boundaries. Many people do not realize that the same boundaries that are appropriate for physical people are also possible to achieve with spirit people. As with physical people, you are in charge of your space. The only way spirit people can come around is if you ignore them or invite them to come see you.
Most of the spirit people we see are not those who have passed on. Instead they are stuck because of things they feel they have to do or, more frequently, because they do not know they are dead.
When you see a spirit person, handle it just like you would someone you are meeting in the physical. Introduce yourself, ask their name and what they are visiting you. If the person’s body was disfigured at the time of death, you can ask them to straighten out their appearance so that it is more tolerable to see. If you are trying to sleep, study or the like, explain to them this is not a good time and then give them a time when they can return. Do not say later, for on the other side, a few seconds can be later! In this way you are setting boundaries that will help you to manage your mediumship and your physical life.
For many, simply creating a way in your imagination (staircase, escalator, or other form of transportation/path) to the light is sufficient to help them move on.
There are many aspects that are not covered in this blog, but questions will be gladly answered!
The world is beginning to comprehend the healing vibration of the Universe, which resonates within all people, places, and things. Incorporating vibration techniques can be done in a myriad of ways; simply follow your intuition as to what might work for your family.
Several of my clients whose children are considered by doctors to be on the “Autism Spectrum” report their kids as having a sensitivity and fondness for vibration in appliances, stones, and specific places on their property. I have found it best to let children take the lead and support what they are naturally drawn to. One child in particular collected rocks and felt comforted by t hem. It wasn’t until the mother took a closer look did she realize each rock had bits of quartz embedded somewhere in them. It was then easy to acknowledge her child naturally gravitated toward these healing stones. I have seen similar traits in other children with regard to shells, leaves, shapes and colors.
My client, Don, not only uses his intuitive energy skills with his children, but also with his father, who has Alzheimer’s disease. Slowly watching his dad deteriorate in awareness and communication abilities at a nursing facility has been painful for Don. Constantly striving to remain connected, he brings in items from home, realizing the energy of certain favorite things syir a reaction from his father and even stimulate conversation about their past. A beloved religious medallion seems to provide the most comfort and healing for them both. Their shared energetic connection, called the Field of Intuitive Harmony, is there for all to explore, regardless of whether you are the parent…or the child. Don demonstrates this beautifully by tapping into the vibrations and honoring the energetic connections with items from his and his father’s lives.
Remember, everything has a vibration. Your resonance with an object, person, or thing may offer you a unique opportunity to tap into Divine energy. Here are some suggestions on how you can experience good vibrations:
- Decorate yourself and your home with natural stones and crystals for their beauty and healing properties
- Use a quartz crystal, tuning fork, or vibrating massager to activate your own or your family’s energy centers.
- Play with rocks! As a family, collect and track your sensitivity to certain stones. Why do you like them? How do they make you feel? Head out on a field trip to a rock museum or a local quarry.
- Go for a walk in the woods to tap into the Earth’s energies. Dowse for water, minerals, or even caves. Make it a fun outing for the whole family.
- When you feel resonance within your body, ask your higher self for more details and expect the answer to come to you. Resonance is often experienced as the lift in our heart, the bounce in our step or even a subtle all over vibration. It is a feeling of deep connectedness.
Deb Snyder, PhD, is the author of Intuitive Parenting (Beyond Words 2010) and creator of the HeartGlow method. She is an inspirational speaker and teacher to groups large and small and offers instruction on intuitive parenting in private sessions classes and seminars throughout the country. FMI, visit www.heartglowparenting.com.
Filed under: managing your gifts and abilities
- First, you can try to follow the energy back to the source. Then you can see what is going on with that person and try to help. Helping can be done by sending soothing energy (usually blue or pink light) or making a phone call! Of course, if you have a telepathic connection with the individual, you can always try that!
- If you are not able to follow the energy, you can simply make phone calls of those to whom you feel the most connected to see if everything is alright. (Sad that we seldom pick up on positive emotions, no?)
- can simply ask for the feelings to be taken from you and sent to the healing place. You can also just push the feelings away or change their energy. (it is kinder to change the energy.)
Sometimes, though, we have collected so much energy that it is too hard to get rid of it ourselves. This is when we need help!
If you go to a person to be cleared, be certain of the following:
- the person’s energy is what you want to be around, for you will experience their energy.
- that the person gives credit for the clearing to spirit, not “I can do this or that.”
- that the person is filling up the space that was cleared with positive energy
Once you are cleared, you should feel relaxed, light and clean. Sometimes you can feel so light it is difficult to move for a while. People can actually fall if getting up too soon. You will need to drink water to help ground yourself as well as eat something light like a cracker.
All energy is a frequency. Raymon Grace, www.raymongrace.us is a good place to begin to learn about how to change frequencies and join projects that help change entire locations such as schools. By changing the frequency, the energy is changed. This is not something to take lightly as it is the same as working with electricity!
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