Placeoflight's Blog

One of the primary reasons people are upset by their intuitive abilities, particularly those who are mediums (see/hear spirit people) is the lack of boundaries.  Many people do not realize that the same boundaries that are appropriate for physical people are also possible to achieve with spirit people.  As with physical people, you are in charge of your space.  The only way spirit people can come around is if you ignore them or invite them to come see you.

Most of the spirit people we see are not those who have passed on.  Instead they are stuck because of things they feel they have to do or, more frequently, because they do not know they are dead.

When you see a spirit person, handle it just like you would someone you are meeting in the physical.  Introduce yourself, ask their name and what they are visiting you.  If the person’s body was disfigured at the time of death, you can ask them to straighten out their appearance so that it is more tolerable to see.  If you are trying to sleep, study or the like, explain to them this is not a good time and then give them a time when they can return.  Do not say later, for on the other side, a few seconds can be later!  In this way you are setting boundaries that will help you to manage your mediumship and your physical life. 

For many, simply creating a way in your imagination (staircase, escalator, or other form of transportation/path) to the light is sufficient to help them move on.

There are many aspects that are not covered in this blog, but questions will be gladly answered!